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Dale Peck

 

The Pecking Order

 

He’s been called “brave”, “talented” and “a literary one-man bandit”. Helen Sandler asks author Dale Peck about his new book and the distracting storm that surrounds his work as a reviewer

 

 

The New York–based writer Dale Peck is known mainly for his novels, Fucking Martin, The Law of Enclosures and Now It’s Time to Say Goodbye, which look at dysfunctional families, love between men, prejudice and AIDS. But his latest book, What We Lost (Granta), is more of a memoir – about his father, who is also called Dale. Part one recounts Dale Sr’s childhood, focusing on a period when he got a break from his abusive mother and alcoholic father by living on his uncle’s farm. Part two shows the two Dales making a visit to the farm decades later.

 

HS: What made you write the story of your father’s childhood?

 

DP: In 2001 I took a trip with him to visit the farm where he’d lived for a few years when he was a teenager. I’d never considered writing about it until we went there. Then it just took me over. The day after we left the farm, I started writing the book.

 

The story is, at heart, a tough one. What did you gain from writing it?

 

On a personal level, it brought me closer to my father, both in terms of my insight into his experiences, and in terms of our relationship. On an artistic level, the book reaffirmed certain things about my own writing I haven’t thought about in a while. My fiction tends to be experimental, but I wanted this book to be very straightforward so that my father could read it. Working on it reminded me of my own strengths as a writer: my prose, my empathy (even for characters I despise) and my ability to physicalise a scene.

 

What do you want the reader to gain from reading it?

 

I just wanted to bear witness to something I didn’t see, but that’s had a profound effect on my life. What the reader makes of that is his own business. A lot of people have told me they cried, which makes as much sense as anything else.

 

There seem to be a few men writing memoirs about abusive childhoods lately. Do you feel any affinity with the others?

 

I don’t read many memoirs, and I certainly didn’t want to read any while I was working on this book. Memoirs, even more than novels, spring from such deeply personal experiences that to generalise across the genre runs the risk of falsifying the individual stories. I tried not to present this book as a learning experience, or an exemplary one, which many memoirists do.

 

So what’s the purpose?

 

I think the point of a memoir is to show not how much the subject is like other people, but how individual he is, regardless of how mundane or extraordinary his life has been.

 

How much responsibility did you feel to get the story “right”?

 

A lot, which is why I opted to publish as non-fiction rather than fiction. But what “getting it right” means is hard to say. For me, it meant conveying the emotional reality of my father’s time on the farm, and his bewildering decision to leave – and also of his memories, which are probably a little different from what happened.

 

Is any of it fiction?

 

It has been fleshed out with fictional techniques, but I felt bound to return to what was known to have happened.

 

How did your father feel about you writing the book?

 

He was very supportive. I think he felt I was validating his own miserable childhood, after years of complaining about mine. He was unable to read most of it because of the terrible memories it brought up. He loves the second part though.

 

Have you always known you were gay? When did you come out and how did your family react?

 

I suppose I knew I was gay when I was 11 or 12. It seems a very long time ago now. I came out to my friends when I was 20 and to my family when I was 22. They were pretty shitty about it. My father and I didn’t speak for a year, my sister wanted me to find God, my aunt said she would love me despite it. But most of that was based on ignorance. They still have their issues, but they’ve calmed down a lot.

 

How does being gay affect your writing?

 

Oh God, who knows? Every way and no way?

 

I’ve read that you planned out your writing career years ago, in terms of the novels you were going to write.

 

When I was a senior in college I came up with the ideas for five novels; when I was in writing school I added another. The first was Martin and John [published in the UK as Fucking Martin], the second was The Law of Enclosures. When I started the second, I found that a lot of narrative questions were answered if I made the main characters the parents of the main character in Martin and John. Based on that, I turned all six novels into a series, with the addition of a seventh book of short stories that will sum up the previous books. I’ve published three of the novels and the fourth, The Garden of Lost and Found, is almost done.

 

What’s it about?

 

It continues what I think of as my own personal history of the AIDS epidemic, and is a novel of New York City as well. I’d been working on the book for three years already when September 11 happened, which forced me to re-examine the project considerably. I took some time off, wrote What We Lost, some short fiction and some essays, and am just now getting back to it.

 

Can you sum up the controversy there’s been in the States about your critical writing, for those Brits who’ve missed it?

 

Basically, I don’t like most contemporary literary fiction, and I’ve said so. I don’t think I’m alone in my sentiments, but I am alone in speaking out about it in a public forum, which has led to me being singled out for attacks and slights. Part of the reason I’ve become such an inflammatory figure is that I’ve challenged the whole project of so-called “experimental” fiction, dating back to Ulysses.

 

And they hate you for it?

 

People think I’m getting a little too big for my britches. In America, once you’ve been branded with a certain media identity, it takes on a life of its own, so I’ve sat back and watched as people have discussed my critical writing out of any real context. It’s been amusing, but also financially draining. For an industry supposedly devoted to free speech, American publishing can be very petty and censoring, and I’ve had to suffer the effects of a lot of payback.

 

Your criticism is being collected in a book called Hatchet Jobs [New Press, May]. What do you hope readers will get from the book?

 

I hope they’ll see the full scope of my concerns and nothing more. Another aspect of my isolation as a literary figure is that I’ve refused to form a programme or a school. I haven’t named an alternative canon or outlined a set of guidelines for making good fiction. All I’ve tried to do is free people from the constricting bipolar paradigm of realism v. postmodernism.

 

Which current writers do you most admire?

 

Since Thomas Bernhard died, I’d say that my favourite living writers are Toni Morrison and Joan Didion, although Morrison’s last two books were pretty unsuccessful. I’m also a huge fan of Kathryn Davis and Rebecca Brown, two women who have yet to get their due from American readers.

 

And the ones to watch?

 

There are certain up and coming writers I admire tremendously, including Calvin Baker, Lisa Dierbeck, Jonathan Safran Foer, and Josh Furst, and my friend Jim Lewis is one of my great heroes. A former student of mine, Marc Bojanowski, has a fantastic first novel coming out later this year called The Dog Fighter. It’s a brilliant book – just brilliant.

 

What are your plans this month?

 

I’m immersed in editing. I’m very close to finishing three different books, and want to get them all off my plate so I can get on to a new novel.

 

What are you doing after this interview?

 

I’m going to the gym.

 

 

© Helen Sandler 2004

 

This article first appeared in Gay Times, April 2004

 

 

 

 

 

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